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Therapy for life transitions

Online therapy for women in Leesburg VA, and throughout VA, MD, and DC

 You never expected life to look like this.

You’ve heard time and again that the one constant life guarantees is change.

Knowing change is a fact of life doesn’t make it easier to navigate. Even the changes we might initiate in our lives, like accepting a new job, moving, starting a family, or ending a relationship, bring mixed feelings. And the situations that happen without warning, like illness or injury, the death of a loved one, or unemployment, often leave heavy feelings of loss and grief, sometimes anger, guilt, relief, or a sense of peace. Your experience is unique to you.

However, when change occurs, you can be certain – whether minor or major, planned or unplanned — life as you know it is disrupted. And you feel the impact in obvious external ways, like in your day-to-day routines or in your relationships, and in less exact, internal ways, like in the way your mood shifts, your body tenses, or your thoughts race.  

No matter how much you hope that things will stay the same, what was normal and felt stable starts to shift. 

You’ve been feeling…

  • worry about what the future holds

  • grief for what used to be

  • stress or tension in anticipation of what might happen

  • uncertain and confused about what’s next

  • self-doubt about knowing what’s right or best 

When you’re living under constant, high levels of stress, anxiety, or fear, it’s hard to see beyond the immediate situation. The onslaught of thoughts and emotions you’re experiencing can limit your vision, keeping you rooted in dense, brain fog. It’s in this “messy middle” where one often struggles, fights, resists, stalls, grieves, and gets stuck. 

You don’t want to feel like this anymore.

How therapy with me works

I specialize in helping women bounce back from the unexpected. I help you pivot and downshift so you can get through this transitional space - between the old and the new. This in-between can test your patience.

In the safe, compassionate space I offer, you can step out of the chaos and have a quieter, less distracting place where you can pause, listen to, and hear your wise self for what truly matters. Our consistent time together provides stability and a neutral zone where you can delve into the complex, contrasting emotions you’re experiencing and safely explore and understand what is getting stirred up.

At times, you might feel like you “should” be over it, but it’s important to remember that this adjustment is fluid and unique to you. It can’t be rushed or prodded; you have to feel your way through it. In times like this, when you’re worn down and life seems unrecognizable, someone like me can be an impartial, extra set of eyes and ears you need to help you get through the confusion, fear, and uncertainty.

This time and space to be curious and reflect will not only help you make sense of why you feel off-kilter and overwhelmed, but it will also help you find the answers you need. You will gain perspective and clarity so that you can see the possibilities and opportunities that lie ahead for yourself, your relationships, and your life.

Therapy for life transitions can help you…

  • Reduce stress and alleviate anxiety

  • Gain a deeper understanding of what truly matters to you

  • Find meaning and purpose in the chaos

  • Create healthier boundaries around your time and energy

  • Discover new ways to feel happier and more confident

Frequently asked questions about therapy for life transitions

FAQs

  • A life transition is the period of time between an ending and a beginning when you are adjusting to something new. Some examples of life transitions include graduation, starting a new job, committing to a serious relationship, becoming a parent, breakup/divorce, job loss/change, moving, becoming an empty nester, or retirement. Learn more.

  • Whether you expect something to change or something unexpected happens, a range of emotions arises in anticipation of a change or as you adapt and adjust to a new situation. Sometimes, these emotions can be so overwhelming that it affects your day-to-day functioning. Other times, big changes can bring up questions about your values, identity, and perspective. Some changes may cause you to take stock of your life and evaluate what needs improving or eliminating. If you haven’t been feeling yourself, schedule a free consult, and we can figure out what might help. Learn more.

  • It’s easy! Email me to schedule a free consult so we can talk about what’s on your mind. It will give you an opportunity to decide whether therapy is the step you need to take and whether I’m the right person for you. If I can’t help, I will offer referrals to others who may. Learn more.

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 Your life can feel like yours again.